Over Twenty million kids register each year for sport teams – Hockey, Soccer, Football, Baseball, Volleyball and other competitive sports. It is reported that 70 percent of these kids quit playing these league sports by age 13 — and never play them again. Although there are many reasons that the kids quit, the number one reason is that it just stops being fun. With childhood obesity on the rise, we need to encourage our kids to be active. Just get out away from TV and computer games and have fun.
With sports being such a positve part of kids lives, it’s time that we stop and think about how we approach our kids & sports starting at preschool level and beyond. During the preschool & early elementary levels, the focus should be on the element of play. Don’t burden them with competition. Get them running, kicking, throwing, catching and keep it fun.
Coaches & parents alike need to be aware that all kids don’t develop their physical stature, coordination or attention span at the same speed. This is when we need to encourage our kids to develop a passion for the sport and the skills will come along as the kids themselves work to improve. Many kids are turned off sports due to parents or coaches high expectations and they feel they will never live up to them.
During the middle school years, a great number of
kids will drop out of their sports teams. Winning seems all that is important and sports lose their “fun” aspect. While most kids won’t make the school team, they should be encouraged to meet after school at parks for fun “pick-up” games where scores aren’t the main focus but developing relationships with other kids, team work and fun is the name of the game.
By high school age, it’s usually only the top athletes that play on the school teams & competitive levels. With limited positions to be filled on the team it is just the “best” players that get picked by coaches. But what about kids who still love to play sports but can’t because of their demanding academic, social, and work lives? Parents need to remind these kids of the fun they could have while playing these games and help them find the time to play them with other family members and friends. Helping your kids stay connected to the sports they love now can encourage them to remain physically active throughout their lives.